Letter from Tito Gaspar

June 20, 2010

Dear Peter,

First of all, let me congratulate you for showing to the world the real meaning of a father’s selfless love for his only son. You even chose to forgo your health concerns just so you will not leave the company of your son in his last moments. the accolade goes further, considering that both you and Kutchie had to endure his suffering for the past 4 years.
On the other hand, Patrick was such a fine boy, He had all the attributes of a genius. He had a mind far more mature than his age. He wrote poetry, and had been an example of a caring character. He definitely left his imprint on the people he met the touched. It’s no wonder that he was given the Katangi –tanging award by his school. His life of more than 16 years had advanced to full maturity, far more sooner than what other older people can achieve. That, I feel, is his legacy. He had fulfilled the role God had chosen for him that what most can in their own lifetime.
Had he lived to be more than half a decade, I have no doubt he would be a successful family man, holding responsible positions with wealth and power. He would be a respectable citizen of his country, loved by his neighbors, friends and relatives. And yet, he still would be selfless in helping others in need.
Who are we then to complain about our own lives. When God gave us the breath of life, we were destined to take what is according to His plan, but only, if we choose to do so. I really believe Patrick chose the right path. He chose to be happy, patient, loving, enduring and compassionate. Patrick during his illness, never complained. He never lost his humor, patience and love. He even comforted those around him. He must have known what God has in stored for him. He left us secure in the thought that our Lord would welcome him with open arms< saying: “Welcome, my son, for a mission well done and enter the house I have reserved for you for all eternity.” Happy Father’s day! Love, Tito Gaspar